THE EX-GOOD GIRL PODCAST
If you feel exhausted from constant people pleasing and perfectionism, and you're ready to stop but you don’t know how this podcast is for you!
I will help you learn to stop making other people comfortable at your own expense. I can show you a roadmap you can use to train yourself to stop abandoning your own desires and let go of the fear of what others will think. If you’re ready to stop pretending everything is fine, get out of the cycle of doubt, guilt, and resentment AND step into a life of power and freedom, tune in to The Ex-Good Girl Podcast!
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Episode 2 - How Did We Become Good Girls?
I am so grateful to have a secure relationship with my husband, but it wasn’t always that way. Earlier in our relationship, I was terrified of being left by him, and I built myself an armor of hyper independence and dishonesty. I pretended to be ways I wasn’t to stay safe and “belong” with him.
In this episode, I explore HOW we become “Good Girls”. I’ll explain how our socialization and basic needs are met and influenced by our experiences from birth AND lead us to developing our “Good Girl Syndrome”. At its core, people pleasing isn’t necessarily bad! However, we need to learn when and how to stop people pleasing as well, in order to best meet all our needs. I’ll explain the exchange of behavior for rewards and how this phenomenon works to shape us. By identifying and understanding the roles and rules in our lives and how and why they are created and impacting us, we can start to unravel the “Good Girl Syndrome. Most importantly I’ll help you set the stage to challenge these patterns in ways that you can use to step into your full power and best life!
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What happens inside the free Stop People Pleasing Facebook Community? Our goal is to provide help and guidance on your journey to eliminate people pleasing and perfectionism from your life. We heal best in a safe community where we can grow and learn together and celebrate and encourage each other. This group is for posting questions about or experiences with material learned in The Ex-Good Girl podcast, Sara Fisk Coaching social media posts or the free webinars and trainings provided by Sara Fisk Coaching. See you inside!
Episode 1 - What is a Good Girl?
I am so grateful to have a secure relationship with my husband, but it wasn’t always that way. Earlier in our relationship, I was terrified of being left by him, and I built myself an armor of hyper independence and dishonesty. I pretended to be ways I wasn’t to stay safe and “belong” with him.
Do you expend energy and brain space worrying about what other people think of you? Do you seek praise from others? Are you chronically overwhelmed, overscheduled and overcommitted? Do you feel a lack of choice and freedom because of all your duties, obligations and expectations? Do you get those twinges of deep resentment and frustration towards people who say no to you? If you answered yes to any of these then you may be struggling with what I call “Good Girl Syndrome”. In this podcast episode we will explore this archetype and whether or not it is actually working for you. I will ask you questions that help you discover what you actually want and tell you how you can get it. And finally I will talk about how coaching can help you uncover what is happening when you experience these feelings, whether they are working for you, and what your other options could be.
Find Sara here:
https://pages.sarafisk.coach/difficultconversations
https://www.instagram.com/sarafiskcoach/
https://www.facebook.com/SaraFiskCoaching/
https://www.tiktok.com/@sarafiskcoach
https://www.youtube.com/@sarafiskcoaching1333
What happens inside the free Stop People Pleasing Facebook Community? Our goal is to provide help and guidance on your journey to eliminate people pleasing and perfectionism from your life. We heal best in a safe community where we can grow and learn together and celebrate and encourage each other. This group is for posting questions about or experiences with material learned in The Ex-Good Girl podcast, Sara Fisk Coaching social media posts or the free webinars and trainings provided by Sara Fisk Coaching. See you inside!
Don't waste another day living someone else's version of your life.
Together we'll build self trust and break people-pleasing patterns so you can make decisions with confidence, free from guilt and overthinking.