Bio

Sara Bybee Fisk is a Master Certified Coach and Instructor who teaches women how to eliminate people pleasing and perfectionism from their lives. She is an anxious optimist and born-again feminist who listens to more books than she sits down to read. She loves a good hike, good dark chocolate, and good conversations. Her big dreams include learning to sail, singing and dancing like JLo, and helping thousands of women create the big, juicy lives they want to be living. She is a wife and mom of 5 and enjoys those roles most of the time.

Coaching Philosophy and Practices

I have done and am doing this work alongside you. Every transformation I claim I can help you achieve is one I’ve achieved myself. I am an amazing coach and a regular human who messes up and still has learning to do.

I believe without reservation in the unlimited potential to heal from all the hurt and trauma of the human experience to develop self-love and respect. Healed, self-loving individuals will change their relationships, and changed relationships will change the world.

In every coaching session, I will:

  • Witness every part of you that you bring to our sessions with non-judgement and tenderness

  • Love you unconditionally and believe totally in your ability to create the future you want

  • Speak candidly and concisely about what is blocking that future

  • Believe without reservation in your innate wisdom and unlimited potential

  • Provide feedback, support, and space

I have laid out every step you need to stop people pleasing and self-abandonment and to create deep self-love and trust. I’m always learning ways to coach and teach more effectively and incorporating constructive feedback, so I sometimes update my steps and methods accordingly.

I always do my best, and I believe you are always doing your best, too. At any time, if you or I decide to discontinue coaching for any reason, all unused session packages will be promptly and happily refunded.

  • Sara Fisk is an amazing teacher and coach! She has helped me to see the relentless cycle of beating myself up and how this does not serve me. She creates clarity and confidence in her coaching. The results are real and tangible. She delivers value beyond the weekly coaching time and I highly recommend her. My time with Sara has been truly transformational!

    Becky

  • I valued your patience, insight, guidance and view of coaching in general. After starting coaching I’ve become someone who believes in my own worth and ability to do/become whatever I set my mind to doing/becoming. I now believe that I have something to offer people and that my experience matters. I don’t owe anyone anything and the journey I’m on is unique and valuable.

    Brooke

  • Sara is a wise and inspired coach. She has helped me to see some of my unhealthy thinking patterns and has helped me to see that I can change how I think. She is fun and interesting to work with and I find that I really look forward to our calls. I highly recommend Sara as a coach.

    Martha

I am guided by the principles of…

Love

All humans are inherently whole and utterly worthy of unconditional love, and it is the singular challenge of human life to learn to love and be loved this way. Giving and receiving unconditional love in equal measure is the goal.

Justice

Human life is inherently unfair; the test of humanity is to see injustice to others as injustice to oneself and create equity. This is a messy process but one worthy of my time and effort.

Joy

Pleasure, happiness, magic, and awe are essential ingredients to life.

Sovereignty

All humans belong, first and foremost, to themselves and have supreme authority to act in their own lives. When we heal the separation from our power and authority, it becomes the compass by which all other healing happens.

Generosity

In a world of unequal distribution of resources, I use and give my resources to benefit others. There is enough for everyone if we are generous.

Beauty

Beauty in struggle, beauty in peace, beauty in work, beauty in pain, and beauty in being human. It all belongs.

There are many ways to work with me at different price points and time commitments. The best way to know what I’m up to is to follow me on social media and check my latest posts for opportunities.

  • Sara has been an unbelievable help to me! When I first started with her, I was in a pretty angry and hard place. I felt like I was stationary, stuck in this place I didn’t want to be in. She helped me transcend what my mind was telling me about my situation to help me move forward. For that, I am forever grateful. I would recommend Sara to anyone, she has an unbridled wisdom which speaks to all, and we can all benefit from it.

    Jordan

  • Sara is a brilliant coach with the tools to help anyone. I'm grateful to have her as my coach and would 100% recommend her. I trust Sara to lead/guide/help me with whatever is going on with me and I feel she truly trusts in me and my knowledge of what's best for me. I see myself becoming more of who I really am. I’m more proud and happy to be me because of this coaching partnership. My biggest takeaway is that I trust myself. I listen and allow all parts of me. I love myself wholly and fully. I believe in myself and my dreams. I'm no longer ashamed of parts of me and I no longer hide my true thoughts and feelings.

    Michelle

  • Sara’s ability to partner with me in my personal goals has allowed me to feel seen, supported, and has increased my accountability in the growth process. She brings warmth and confidence to her coaching that allows you to ease into areas of discomfort feeling fully assisted and capable enough to tackle what would be easy to avoid. Sara provides concrete skills and educational resources to increase awareness that enhances my ability to make meaningful changes. I wholeheartedly recommend working with Sara on your hopes and aspirations.

    Sara H.Z.

  • After working with Sara, I feel like myself again. After 20 years of hating, bullying and punishing myself- I have learned to heal from past traumas and to love and accept myself completely. She has given me the tools to stop bullying myself, has helped me see the destructive thought patterns that I didn’t even know were there, and taught me how to be vulnerable and reconnect with myself. Her warm personality and loving smile creates the kind of atmosphere that has made it easy to open up in order to do the most important work of my life. Truly an investment that will continue to bless my life!

    Jen

  • Sara is a magical, connected, compassionate, caring, brilliant professional coach. From the first time I met her I knew there was something unique and special to her. I was drawn to her energy and ability to speak directly with expertise to the concept and teaching at hand. The more I got to know her the more I experienced her generosity of giving, and growth and development of her clients, people and friends. She is a leader in her industry and a master at what she does. It is an honor to work with her and her one on one coaching program and I would highly recommend Sara, and I do recommend her, to anyone seeking a one on one coach. The transformative healing I am experiencing is second to none and worth a lifetime. She is teaching to heal and strengthen myself in areas I had no idea existed. This brings power and clarity to all I do in my life.

    Niha

  • Working with Sara is transformational from the first hello. I actually wanted to work with Sara after getting live coaching from her in a Self Coaching Scholars call on relationships. Her few minutes of insights and warmth on that call helped me so much I knew I needed to work with her. She is warm, supportive, kind, AND always ready to point out when I’m fooling myself. Her focus on ending people pleasing helped me peacefully end a relationship that was keeping me stuck in patterns that no longer serve me. The amazing thing is that from there, my identity has shifted away from being a people pleaser and truly speaking my truth with love, owning choices (even difficult ones) with full permission and power, and evolving into a version of me I love.

    Julie