Become the person who always knows what to say.
A two hour workshop with Sara Fisk | 3 days/times to select from:
Mon, June 29th at 12pm PT, Thursday, July 23rd at 3pm PT, or Wednesday, August 19th at 12:30pm PT
You know what you want to say.
Now let’s find the words.
Say It With Clarity teaches you the exact framework for finding the sentence, saying it at the right moment, and taking care of the part of you that’s scared to say it.
A two hour workshop with Sara Fisk | 3 days/times to select from:
Mon, June 29th at 12pm PT, Thursday, July 23rd at 3pm PT, or Wednesday, August 19th at 12:30pm PT
The conversation isn’t actually the problem.
The reason it feels so hard isn’t the conversation. It’s everything running underneath it.
Be nice. Be careful. Don’t be too bold or you’re bitchy. Manage their feelings. Protect the relationship. Don’t take up too much space or be a burden or…or…or…
“Good girl” training doesn’t just teach you to be polite. It teaches you to manage everyone’s experience at once- including your own anxiety- before you say a single word.
No wonder nothing sounds right. You’re not just looking for words. You’re negotiating a minefield.
Finding the right words is a skill. This workshop teaches it. You can be direct, honest, and clear - and kind when it matters.
“Knowing what you want to say is step one. Learning how to find the words- and stay steady when you say them- that’s what this workshop teaches.”
This workshop teaches you a framework that works for any conversation. In our 90 minutes I'll teach you how to use it with lower-stakes conversations first so you can build the skill and the confidence.
Staying stuck in these dynamics is already expensive.
It’s the hours you spend in your head after the conversation you didn’t have. The energy you burn managing a dynamic that isn’t working, hoping it shifts on its own. The relationships that function but never go deeper because the true thing never gets said. The slow accumulation of resentment toward people you actually love.
That tax is already being paid. Every day you stay in it, you pay it again.
The only question is whether you keep paying it- or spend 90 minutes learning a skill that changes it.
A two hour workshop with Sara Fisk | 3 days/times to select from:
Mon, June 29th at 12pm PT, Thursday, July 23rd at 3pm PT, or Wednesday, August 19th at 12:30pm PT
THIS WORKSHOP IS FOR YOU IF
You have something you need to say and you keep rewriting it- every version either sounds too harsh or too soft and nothing sounds like you
You try and say what you mean but with all of the backpedaling you walk away feeling like you didn't actually say it.
The moment you imagine saying it out loud, something shuts down- your chest tightens, your mind goes blank, and you talk yourself out of it again
You’ve been told to “just be more direct” without anyone ever showing you what that actually looks like in the moment
You want to say the thing without blowing up the relationship or caving- again
What women say…
“I talked to my parents last night. It went better than I thought it would, and I felt really amazing about the way I showed up for myself. They said the things I expected- but the emotional tenor wasn’t nearly as intense. I was able to be really solid and present with myself and say what I wanted to say without needing it to be received well. It’s a really big shift in how I’m going to show up going forward.”
— Alex
“Working with Sara has been instrumental in driving the type of change I wanted in my life. By learning to create safety in myself, I’m able to show up more authentically and I stop wasting time beating myself up.”
— Beth
“Between Sara’s dynamic coaching and detailed action formulas, several relationships have improved greatly. Tangible results: set boundaries with family members, asked my adult children for what I need, told a friend the truth about the impact of her words and actions without blaming, let go of a friendship that wasn’t healthy for me and did it with kindness.”
— Brenda“I managed to have a difficult conversation with a friend. She was genuinely mortified that her comment had such an impact. We feel more connected having had that conversation.”
— Marie
“I now can say no with confidence without having to justify my reason and my mind isn’t ruminating for the next 24 hours.”
— Mikaela
This is a working workshop.
You'll bring a conversation you need to have. You leave with your actual sentences built and ready and knowing how to feel safe enough to actually say them.
HERE’S WHAT WE COVER:
STEP 1
Know your conversation
Not all conversations require the same approach. A boundary with a coworker and a hard truth with your partner are different operations. You’ll learn to identify exactly what kind of conversation you’re in- and how to prepare accordingly.
STEP 2
Like your reasons
You don’t need a guaranteed outcome to justify saying the thing. You need a reason you believe in. We cover how to find it- and why it matters more than the perfect words.
STEP 3
The Clarity Scale
A 1-to-10 framework for finding the right words. The “good girl rules” taught women to communicate at a 1 or 2 without realizing the whole rest of the scale is available to them. You’ll learn to start at 10 and work your way to the sentence that’s both true and sayable.
STEP 4
Say it at the right moment
The same sentence lands differently depending on timing, tone, and how you open. You’ll learn how to make it easier for the other person to actually hear you- without softening what you need to say.
STEP 5
Take care of the scared part
The part of you that freezes before hard conversations is usually young. It learned what was safe to say a long time ago. You’ll learn how to find that part, care for it, and move forward anyway.
STEP 6
Mental rehearsal
Your brain responds to vivid mental rehearsal the same way it responds to actual experience. We build the practice so the conversation feels familiar before you ever say a word out loud.
You're not the problem.
You just never learned the skill.
YOUR COACH
SARA BYBEE FISK
